Monthly Archives: March 2018

Introducing the Sleep Happy Monthly Club Membership

Introducing the Sleep Happy Monthly Club Membership!

Children’s sleep needs change as they grow and move through different developmental phases. That is why we created the Sleep Happy Club for former clients. Membership in the club includes ongoing sleep consultant follow-up and support. Members receive monthly age appropriate sleep updates, covering changes to watch for and explaining developmental milestones.

Our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and support to smoothly transition through the different developmental phases while maintaining the healthy sleep habits you have already created.

If you would like to have your sleep expert on call each month, visit services page for more information or send me an email today!

Solve Your Naptime Struggles with the Quiet Box Method

Introducing the Quiet Box…

The Quiet Box is a great tool to reintroduce or reinforce nap time or quiet time.

The Quiet Box is a shoebox or plastic box filled with a few quiet toys that is introduced with enthusiasm to a child at nap or quiet time.   I always recommend to have established Sleep Rules or Sleep Expectations in place prior to using the Quiet Box Method.  Once nap or quiet time expectations in your home are set, the Quiet Box can be introduced.  It should  only be used when little ones are laying down AND calm.  The privilege of the Quiet Box can be lost if your child protests loudly or is bouncing around the room instead of resting.  Build up the excitement for the Quiet Box.  Let the child know that after nap, the Quiet Box gets put away.  But staying calm and resting during “quiet time” means you earned the Quiet Box again tomorrow.

 

Do you have to go out and buy a bunch of things in order to use the Quiet Box Method?

No way! Use what your have around the house.  Find some toys that are at the bottom of the toy box or the back of the closet.  You do want the box to be somewhat novel, so you can always pick up some new books at the library.  My favorite quiet toys include books, manipulatives, puzzles, little people or characters, toys, soft stuffed animals, a few duplos or blocks, dolls that have fine motor opportunities like buttons, zippers, and snaps on them, stacking cups or a practice board to name a few.

My suggestion is to pick 3 different toy options to start with.  For example, 2 small books, 3 little people, and a few duplos.  You can always add more, but the idea behind the method is to entice your child to go calmly in their room to “rest” and have independent developmental playtime.   Depending on the age of your child, you would like them to eventually go to sleep, so keep your box simple and not overwhelming.  After the first day, you can always alter the box if you feel your child needs more or less.

Make sure you put the box away, out of reach when nap is over.

I will be sharing unique finds to add to your Quiet Box over time, so be sure to follow Sleep Happy on Instagram and Facebook!

And one more nap tip … if at first the Quiet Box does not work, reevaluate how stimulating your child’s room is.  Simplifying your child’s room can help create a more calming environment.  It may seem drastic, but it can be a great way to help reset nap or quiet time.  Here are pictures from one Sleep Happy Mom of two who made changes to reset the boundary for nap for her 2 year old daughter.  Her daughter was spending her entire nap time pulling out clothes from the dresser, changing clothes multiple times and even taking offer her diaper during her two hour nap time.  Once Mom introduced the quiet box and simplified her room, her daughter was engaged with her box and then would pack it away before laying down to take her regular 1.5-2 hour nap.

 

Many thanks to my darling models,  age two and a half,  for allowing me to borrow their toys and modeling how to use the Quiet Box Method for our Sleep Happy readers!

Have additional questions on how to reset Quiet Time for your little one?  Give me a call at 214-856-0341 or shoot me an email at Jessica@SleepHappyConsulting.com.

 

Sleep Happy Gives Back: Supporting Babies Need Boxes

Ever since I founded Sleep Happy in 2015, I have had a desire to give back to parents of little ones. That is why I am so excited about our month of supporting the non-profit organization, Babies Need Boxes, this April. Babies Need Boxes distributes baby boxes filled with essential childcare products. The boxes themselves are safe sleep spaces for infants up to 6 months.

Throughout the month of April, 20% of all Sleep Happy sales will be donated to Babies Need Boxes. That means that each phone consultation scheduled, Sleep Happy Club Membership dues paid, 10-day consultations package booked, or Pillow Bar purchase made through Sleep Happy in April, will benefit this wonderful organization.

The idea of babies sleeping in cardboard boxes actually has a long-standing tradition in Finland. For over 80 years, Finland has handed out boxes for safe sleeping filled with newborn essentials to all new parents. The founder of Babies Need Boxes, Danielle Selassi from Minnesota, was inspired to create the non-profit organization after hearing about Finland’s cardboard box program. Danielle’s goal was similar: to provide safe sleep solutions and newborn essentials to all families, regardless of socioeconomic status.

Supporting a child’s start to life with education, support, and safety are core values for us here at Sleep Happy Consulting.  Equipping parents with safe sleep options and education from the very start of their parenting journey creates confidence in parents.  I am so excited to have found this movement and to be supporting Danielle’s mission this year.   The goals of her nonprofit aligns with the Sleep Happy mission:

To be a source of knowledge and empowerment for parents; equipping them with the confidence and tools to teach their children to become happy sleepers.

After earning my BS in Child Development & Family Relationships, my first job out of college was with Early Childhood Intervention. Early Childhood Intervention focuses on serving the birth to 3 population with developmental delays & their families in the home. My work as a case manager, sitting on floors with parents & little ones, is where my heart grew for educating & empowering families. Supporting Babies Needs Boxes is a great way to get real solutions to support parents into the homes.

Are you ready to have all your sleep goals achieved while supporting Babies Need Boxes? Then don’t hesitate, contact Jessica today by scheduling a free 15-minute Phone Consultation emailing jessica@sleephappyconsulting.com, or by calling 214-856-0341.

Daylight Savings “Springing” Forward

 

 

Springing Forward often causes parents more concern than Falling Back, because surely it is easier to fall asleep later than usual than earlier than usual, RIGHT?!

I like to simplify all the overwhelming information that circulates around the time change.  If you read my blog post about “Falling Back” you will know how much I encouraged you to use light, natural and artificial, at bedtime to help little ones adjust to the Fall time change.

Now with the Spring Forward in the clocks, we are going to use the lack of light to help naturally tigger earlier sleepiness. I encourage you to dim the light 1 hour prior to bedtime. This means you need to have dimmers, black out curtains, black poster board or trash bags and painters tape on hand to bulk up your darkness game starting on Wednesday.  The dimming of the lights also includes turning off iPads, iPhones, tablets, television shows, and other stimulating screens.  If you have other questions about my recommendations on screen time before bed, feel free to read my post on Screen Time Truths.

Time Change Tips:

Take a deep breath, continue to be thoughtful in reading YOUR child’s cues, stay calm and confident.

Select between TWO options:

Option A:  Do nothing, wing it, follow your child’s cues and adjust schedule if needed starting Sunday.

Option B:  Shift Schedule forward starting Wednesday to give yourself 4 days to shift bedtime up.  Wake from last nap of the day 15 minutes earlier than normal in order to be able to shift bedtime 15 minutes earlier AND wake your child each morning 15 minutes earlier than usual to fit the new Sunday morning target wake up time.  {I know this is the most brutal suggestion, but it will have the best pay off down the road.}  Repeat this method for each of the four days so that when you reach the day the time shifts, your child’s new schedule will match her pre-DST schedule.

Darken bedtime zone 1 hour before bedtime to naturally signal the hormone release to move them into a sleepier state.  This means no outside play (move it to first thing in the morning instead the first week) and no exposure to screens at this time.  Dim lights and quieter voices are great signals for young children to start calming their bodies for sleep.

Make sure you are consistent with your response and reinforcing boundaries for sleep as you guide your child through the time change. You don’t want to build in a new crutch.

How do naps work if I decide to move up bedtime and wake time 15 minutes each day for 4 days?

You have a young infant and you still watch the awake time intervals and balance that with your baby’s sleepy cues to know when to but her down for naps.  Continue with this plan, but be sure to wake from naps when needed to protect the next sleep session and insure that your baby is not getting too much day sleep.

OR

You have a child that naps at a predictable time each day. Apply the 15 minute earlier a day strategy to help with the adjustment.

 

Still feeling apprehensive about this time change thing that everyone thought was a good idea way back in 1918?

Think about your child’s needs.  Think about your schedule.  What can you be consistent with for a week to get through the adjustment?

PREPARE Decide what approach your family will take to adjust to “loosing an hour” or “springing forward.”

WATCH Watch nap durations to make sure children do not get too much day sleep.

USE LIGHT AS A SIGNAL Dim light ONE hour before bedtime.  Move evening outdoor playtime to the morning to help with the transition to an earlier bedtime.

Most #happysleepers that already sleep well because their parents have firm boundaries for sleep in place adjust to the time change in a few days.  A small percentage of children require a gradual adjustment and take a week or two to settle in.

Have more questions?  Would you like a sleep expert to weigh in on your current sleep routines?  Schedule a free 15-minute call to learn more about how Sleep Happy services can your help you reach your sleep dreams by following this link:  https://calendly.com/sleephappy/free15min.